We all want our wedding to be unique and special, but there’s nothing wrong with taking a bit of celebrity inspiration and making it our own. Wedding trends abound – groom’s cakes, on-site after-parties featuring a last round of food at the end of the night, and snapping formal photos before ceremonies so couples can spend more time with their guests at cocktail hour – but here we’ve selected our four favorite celebrity weddings that have spurred trends in weddings that don’t attract the paparazzi. We talked to the top wedding experts – in some cases, the ones who actually worked with the celebrity brides – to get you the best tips and advice on how to incorporate Hollywood details into your personal affair.